Tuesday, August 3, 2010

The Guy...

So as a kid, I would always make these lists of what my "perfect guy" would possess.
So I decided today that that was what I was going to blog on today.
My Perfect Guy.
And I think its the perfect time because lists like these always are bias to the guy you are liking at the time.
At the moment, I don't like anyone =] So I can be completely honest with myself.
So My Perfect guy would have to:

Be a christian:
Religion is very important to me. If you're not a christian, then its really hard to have strong morals.
For example, not having sex before you're married. Or not getting drunk. Stuff like that.
Plus if I date someone whose not a christian, my parents would be angry! haha.

Be a Singer (or at least a decent one.):
I sing all the time. And one thing I CAN NOT STAND is if someone is off on songs.
And I don't mean singing in front of a crowd of people and they are off.
I mean like seriously singing with the radio and sounding off.
I can deal with this to an extent. But if I'm going to spend most of my time with him, it would get annoying.

Be good looking. (or at least to me):
I believe you can not truly like someone if you are not physically attracted to them.
Because seriously, would you want to kiss that?
Would you want your babies to look like that?
I don't think so..

Be self confident:
I think that a guy needs to be self confident, but not in a snobbish, arrogant way.
I don't have very much self confidence. So therefore I don't want a boy friend who has low self esteem as well.
I want him to be confident in himself, that way it can help me build mine.

Be childish, yet mature:
I want him to want to have fun.
To want to go to places like disney world or disney land.
To want to go to the movies and watch cartoons.
But at the same time I don't want him being immature.
I don't want him to be loud in restaurants, or embarrass me in public places.

Be dorky:
I want him to be smart.
But not just book smart.
I want him to know about music, and movies, and comic books.
I want him to know things I don't, so I can learn.
I want him to not care what others think of him.

Be a disney fan:
If you know me, you know I'm IN LOVE with disney.
Anything Disney.
Old movies, some tv shows and music, and definitely Disney World.
I've been to Disney world 5 times, and on a Disney Cruise 1 time.
I can't imagine planning a life with someone who doesn't love disney world.
Because they will be very unhappy when all our vacations are planned by disney.=]

Be travel ready:
I love to travel.
So far I have been to almost 10 countries.
And I do not plan to stop.
I want to travel!!
I still haven't been to all the 50 states, or england =]

Be caring:
If I am upset, I want him to want to make me feel better, because I would do the same.

Be helpful:
Doing house work and stuff is hard.
So I would want someone who would share the load.

Be Goofy:
I love nothing more than someone who can make me laugh.
If you can make me laugh, you've got me hooked.

Be a music lover:
If you don't love music, I really don't know how a relationship could work out with me.
I live and breath music.
And no I don't mean " hey yeah I love music. I love heavy metal but I hate country."
Yeah. I get that a lot.
I want someone who doesn't care the genre.
Just that the music is good.

Be Happy:
I understand that no one is happy all the time.
But just someone whose not always down on themselves.
Some who generally wants to be happy.

Yeah I know. The Perfect Guy apparently doesn't exist.
But I really don't feel like I'm asking for much.
Just a good guy.
Someone to love me.
And I know it's not a one way street.
And I would do my best to help in a relationship.
This is just my point of view.
But I really do believe he's out there.
And he may not posses all of these traits.
But I'm not going to settle for just anything.

=]

Love ya!
Awiison.

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